A good personality cannot be made in a day or week. It's a continuous process which goes on and on, i.e., you keep on sharpening your skills and personality traits,
1.First and foremost, you need to be confident of what you are.
2. Be clear what do you want from life - and works towards it, slowly but steadily.
3. Never be shy of anything - any point of time you have any hitch, clarify it by asking - never ever assume anything - ask and clarify.
4. Ask for detailed clarifications
5.Always be cheerful and feel happy about yourself.
6. Be open to others, so that you can communicate with them.
7. Greet others; don't wait for them to greet you first.
8.Inculcate good habits, like reading, sports, adventure etc - these activities will make you fit, healthy, energetic and smart
9.Don’t talk too much - too much talking is like shooting without aim, talk sense and when it’s necessary.
10. Never be late in saying Thank you and sorry.
11. Never indulge in any anti-social activities
12.Keep good company. Respect your elders.
13. Obey your parents, seniors, boss, and teachers/ professors.
14. Discuss your ideas with your peer groups and friends.
15. Dress smartly, considering the occasion and situation.
16. Listen to others; don't just jump into conclusion.
17. Be patient
18.Keep your promises and meet your deadlines
the list is endless, as said earlier it's a continuous process of polishing various things, as personality is mixture of many a things.
Perhaps you need to check this list of do’s and don’ts, and maybe there is a flaw in your spiritual walk.
DO Smile it costs nothing and is always appreciated!
DON'T ignore people even when you don't want to talk, be friendly when some says "Hello"!
DO make people feel important. Make each person feel that they are special!
DON'T Brag! No one likes a person who is full of themselves! Be an honest person!
DO have sense of humor! Laugh and people will laugh with you, cry and you cry alone!
DON'T always have problems, troubles or always need help, or you will soon be alone!
DO encourage people! Tell others what you like about them or when they are doing well.
DON'T criticize or cut down people, even yourself!
DO have an interest in many things. Be an interesting person!
DON'T grab the best, biggest, and most for yourself give others a break!
DO meet, strangers, it's hard. You can make a great friend by being friendly to someone you might not know!
DON'T make fun of others when they make a mistake or do something dumb!
DO help others when they have a problem and share what you have with others!
DON'T have a bad temper, or be an angry person looking for an argument or fight!
DO look good, clean, neat, & well groomed!
DON'T blame others for their mistakes or worse, for yours!
DO keep a confidence. If someone tells you something keep it to yourself!
DON'T be too cool! Cool people are never popular people, they are too cool!
DO listen and be an encourager!
DON'T over correct people!
DO take a joke and be a good sport!
DO remember names!
DON'T be loud and obnoxious! DO be yourself.
DO thank people!
...AND BE FRIENDLY!!!
Sit back and close your eyes, and visualize your spiritual pilgrimage, that is growth.
What is your first memory of God?
What was the highest time in your relationship with God?
What was the lowest time?
Now on a piece of paper draw a graph by years since you were born until today, and mark the ups and downs. Do another graph using the same years and chart how you treated people, your family, your friends, people at church, and strangers.
What were the results? Usually when we treat others well they reciprocate and treat us well too.
DO Smile it costs nothing and is always appreciated!
DON'T ignore people even when you don't want to talk, be friendly when some says "Hello"!
DO make people feel important. Make each person feel that they are special!
DON'T Brag! No one likes a person who is full of themselves! Be an honest person!
DO have sense of humor! Laugh and people will laugh with you, cry and you cry alone!
DON'T always have problems, troubles or always need help, or you will soon be alone!
DO encourage people! Tell others what you like about them or when they are doing well.
DON'T criticize or cut down people, even yourself!
DO have an interest in many things. Be an interesting person!
DON'T grab the best, biggest, and most for yourself give others a break!
DO meet, strangers, it's hard. You can make a great friend by being friendly to someone you might not know!
DON'T make fun of others when they make a mistake or do something dumb!
DO help others when they have a problem and share what you have with others!
DON'T have a bad temper, or be an angry person looking for an argument or fight!
DO look good, clean, neat, & well groomed!
DON'T blame others for their mistakes or worse, for yours!
DO keep a confidence. If someone tells you something keep it to yourself!
DON'T be too cool! Cool people are never popular people, they are too cool!
DO listen and be an encourager!
DON'T over correct people!
DO take a joke and be a good sport!
DO remember names!
DON'T be loud and obnoxious! DO be yourself.
DO thank people!
...AND BE FRIENDLY!!!
Sit back and close your eyes, and visualize your spiritual pilgrimage, that is growth.
What is your first memory of God?
What was the highest time in your relationship with God?
What was the lowest time?
Now on a piece of paper draw a graph by years since you were born until today, and mark the ups and downs. Do another graph using the same years and chart how you treated people, your family, your friends, people at church, and strangers.
What were the results? Usually when we treat others well they reciprocate and treat us well too.
